Responsibility for our lives is something we never lose but
which we often deny. As I’ve said many times before, you can give away
control but never responsibility. Remember what I said in class it’s up
to “moi”. The ultimate responsibility for how your life turns out rests
with you and you alone… not with your parents, your boss, your
colleague, your ex, your society, father, mother, sister, brother,
husband, wife, God, or anyone else. You can blame whomever you wish,
but you’re the one who must experience (or endure) the results.
I sometimes receive feedback from people stuck in the pattern of
thinking about what they don’t want. They claim to be focusing on their
desires religiously, and they ask me why their goals don’t seem to be
manifesting. Then they explain all the reasons they believe they’re
having so much trouble.
The Law of Attraction brings you what you think about. To think is to
ask. I cannot help but quote the Word of God that clearly says; “ Ask
and You shall Receive, Seek and You will Find, Knock and the Dorr will
be Openned.” Every thought is an intention. Just be careful cause— it
doesn’t filter what you ask for. If you think about what you want, you
get it. If you think about what you don’t want, you get that too. Once
again, it’s about ‘Moi’ thoughts.
If you want to manifest your desires, then it makes no sense to write
statements like the above. Even when your desires haven’t yet
manifested, remain hopeful and optimistic. Pour on the positive intent,
set your RAS or the GPS of your mind on the right co-ordinates and
allow the Law of Attraction to work with you. Stay in the present
moment. Be on the lookout for synchronicities. If you start getting
frustrated, take a walk or do a meditation to nip it in the bud.
Otherwise you’ll negate your desires by intending their opposite.
The key to mastering the Law of Attraction is responsibility. Remember
the word ‘Responsibility’ comprises of the 2 words ‘RESPONSE’ &
‘ABILITY’ : It is our Response to the best of our Ability that is
required. You must accept personal responsibility for everything in your
life. And I do mean everything. If you perceive it, you’ve manifested
it. Whatever you give your attention to will expand.
How do you learn to stop thinking about what you don’t want? Accept
responsibility for attracting it. This raises your consciousness and
makes you more capable of successfully applying the Law of Attraction to
get what you do want.
What if I deny responsibility for what I experience? What if I say,
“Something out there is causing these problems, and I’m only noticing
what is happening”? Then I’m powerless to change my reality. If I
focus my thoughts on what I’m already getting, I’ll unknowingly activate
the Law of Attraction to continue bringing me more of the same. My
situation will never fundamentally change. And how can it change? If
I’m thinking about what I’m already getting, then I’m manifesting a
loop. It’s stable. If my life is filled with the manifestation of my
desires, I’m in heaven. If my life is filled with what I don’t want,
I’m in hell.
If you’re determined to think about what you don’t want, I certainly
can’t stop you. The best I can do is to hold you accountable for your
results, which can help you become more aware of what you’re doing to
yourself. But if you really want to beat yourself up, go for it. Just
note that I won’t be joining you for the subsequent pity parties down
the road. Only you can save you. It’s up to ‘Moi’. Start learning to
Visualize all the important events, desires, goals, and plans of your
life.Remember, ‘If you can see it, you can do it’ ; first you visualize
then you can actualize it !
Personal testing is one of the reasons I accept the Law of Attraction.
It’s proven itself to me beyond a reasonable doubt. I’ve been working
with it consciously for a few years now, and it still freaks me out
sometimes. Who’d have thought we could attract what we want just by
thinking about it? Does reality really work that way? If it seems
impossible, the thought of its impossibility will manifest like any
other. If you don’t believe in the Law of Attraction, you’re actually
using it to negate itself, which is a perfectly valid application,
albeit one that will bring you lots of frustration.
One of the reasons I’m so happy and passionate about my life is that I’m
getting better at aligning myself with the Law of Attraction. ( or as I
like to look at it : ‘The Law of God’.) I’m having a wonderful time
experimenting with it. As I think about what I want, I keep wondering
when it’s going to show up. When I try to control how it comes to me, I
usually block it. But when I relax and allow it to happen, that’s when
it finally begins showing up. The right people, resources, and
opportunities somehow find me, usually through unexpected
synchronicities.
The sceptical part of my brain has trouble believing reality could
actually work like this. It requires a new model of reality in which
the Law of Attraction makes sense. Consequently, I’ve had to make major
adjustments to my beliefs to compensate for the Law of Attraction.
This led me towards a more subjective view of reality, which eventually
became my default way of thinking.
It all begins with accepting 100% responsibility for your reality.
You’re the one who’s creating it right now. Are you creating what you
want or what you don’t want? Change your dominant thoughts, and you’ll
see reality change as well.
Have an Awesome week !!!
Leslie Choudhury – Int’l Speaker, Trainer, Consultant and Author
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